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There’s Something About Stalia… That’s Problematic

 

There’s been a great deal of controversy over the newest pairing in Teen Wolf, ever since the ship’s first appearance last season. In fact, the very mention of its name: Stalia, is apparently enough to drive Teen Wolf fans to each other’s throats.

For a show that has created and destroyed female characters more frequently than it features actual werewolf transformations, Malia Tate has stuck out from the rest in that she has decisively divided fans. She has been accused of being a Mary Sue, an abusive character, and just plain unnecessary. Perhaps if she had simply appeared as a new character with a focus on her struggle to be human and reunite with her long-lost creepy father, then maybe fans wouldn’t so anti-Malia.

But the writers of Teen Wolf performed a cardinal sin: they paired her up with Stiles.

But the writers of Teen Wolf performed a cardinal sin: they paired her up with Stiles.

Aside from being a fan favorite, Stiles is also the token singleton. He’s the Everyman character and the link for fans to relate to a show about supernatural teenagers who are weirdly hot. Therefore, fans love to pair Stiles with any number of characters, the most prominent ships being Stydia (Stiles and Lydia) and of course, Sterek (Stiles and Derek).

While it’s starting to become to pretty obvious that Sterek was never going to become canon, season 3b featured plenty of moments that hinted at Stiles and Lydia finally getting together after two and a half seasons of Stiles pining for her: including Stiles and Lydia working together constantly, Lydia’s concern when Stiles’ goes missing, and Aiden’s convenient death.

But now, there’s Malia. And while fans are either stubbornly for her or viciously against her, it seems that the writers have honestly no idea what to do with her. Quite suddenly, both Sterek and Stydia are being unceremoniously pushed aside for Stalia, a ship that, quite frankly, doesn’t sit well with many fans.

It all started back in last season’s “Echo House,” with its troubling vague-make-out-maybe-sex scene between the two characters. We’ve discussed the problematic nature of this scene before, and even actor Dylan O’Brien (Stiles) claimed at AlphaCon this summer that he refused to do a full sex scene between Malia and Stiles. It’s obvious that the audience also agreed that a sex scene would’ve been wrong and not a little creepy as they applaud Dylan, who responds happily, “Oh, I thought you guys would boo me for that.”

No, Dylan, we’re on board with teenagers who have mental health issues and/or a lack of social and emotional growth NOT having sex in the dirty basement of a mental health facility.

But that was last season. Maybe the creepy implications of Stiles and Malia (who let’s remember has been a coyote living in the wild since she was 9) hooking up have lessened with time and maybe the issue of consent is no longer one we have to worry about.

Sadly, the latest episode, “117,” put the kibosh on that hope as well. In an exchange of dialogue that was presented as a throwaway light-hearted moment, Stiles explains to Scott that Malia has been sneaking into his bedroom at night. Not only does she sneak in, but she actually crawls into his bed and lies beside him as he’s asleep. Then Stiles lifts up the back of his shirt and reveals something to Scott, who looks aghast.

Fans speculate that it’s scratches as a bite in Teen Wolf is a pretty big deal. But no matter what it is that Malia is doing to Stiles’ back, it’s UNWANTED. There is nothing in the exchange between Scott and Stiles that implies that Stiles wants Malia to sneak into his room and presumably mark him in some way. At no moment does Stiles look happy or like a teenager in love. He looks hassled, confused, and a more than a little put off. Like the hook up scene in “Echo House,” viewers are told to accept a relationship in which the exchange of consent is extremely ambiguous. While Stiles does not say he does not want to be physical with Malia (even if it’s just spooning and scratches), he also does not say he does and that is a huge point of contention. After all, the lack of a yes is still a no.

What’s even more troubling is that this isn’t a case of viewers reading too much into a situation. Shelley Hennig, who plays Malia, has said some pretty triggering stuff in interviews about her character. In an interview with TVLine, she said:

Malia’s very aggressive. She’ll physically grab him, and that means she loves him, as opposed to brushing his face with her hands. She’s more likely to punch him; that’s her way of showing love.

Ok, NO. We get that Malia was a coyote for most of her life and we also get that she needs a great deal of time to become adjusted to living life as a human. What we don’t get is why is the writers are insisting on pushing her into a romantic relationship with Stiles so quickly. The above quote is so dangerous in that it implies that violence can be used to express love, which is definitely not even remotely true, even if the perpetrator is apparently unaware that it is wrong. If this is the case with Stalia, then there is nothing romantic or healthy about Stiles and Malia’s relationship.

Even if you like the character of Malia (after all, she is complicated and has the potential for great things), there’s no denying that the majority of fans seem to be against Stiles engaging in a romantic relationship with her.

Survey from MTV.com

So, what do you think? Do you think Stalia is a ship worth sailing? Are there other problematic issues with the relationships inTeen Wolf? Do you think the writers even know what they’re doing at this point?

Reasons to love Stiles and Lydia (Stydia)

Reasons to love Stiles and Lydia (Stydia)

List so far:

1. The way he looks at her…
2. …and how she looks at him.
- scenes of them looking at each other

3. He’d loose his mind if she died…
4. …and Scott knows it.
- stile’s quote
- “I’m here to save my best friend” “and I’m here to save mine”

5. He thinks she should call him first…
6. …and she does.
- “I should call you before the police when I find a dead body?” “YES”
- “and you told me to call you if I find a dead body”
- all the times she calls him after (piano with music, motel california text)

7. He’s been following her for so many years…
8. …and now she’s following him…
9. …and he calls it “pathetic”.
- stiles following her
- when he tells scott lydia’s been following them

10. She listens to him.
- “I’m not psychic” “you’re SOMETHING”
- “I’m psychic” “psychic?” “I’m SOMETHING”

11. He’s had a crush on her since the third grade.
- the times he mentions it

12. Sometimes two people you wouldn’t expect to be together turn out to be a perfect combination…
13. …and she can see that.
- do I even need to write it down?

14. The way he protects her.
- running to her after deer accident
- protecting her in derek’s house 3x14
- peter’s attack
- give her a werewolf coat as a bday present

15. They have an unspoken connection.
- quote: “unspoken, of course”
- lydia in stiles’ mind (screaming while he’s in the MRI)

16. She kissed him…
17. …and he held his breath.
- once again, do I have to add it in

18. He knows her better than anyone.
- only one to know how smart she really is
- actually strawberry blonde

19. She’s his anchor.

20. He followed her home…
21. …because he wanted to make sure she was okay…
22. …even though she had a police escort…
23. …and he followed her into her room.
- 3x03

24. She can tell when he’s not okay.
- interagotory face
- getting the text of his father

25. He always makes sure that she’s okay.
- what the hell is a stiles scene
- after the crash

26. The way she saves him.
- the explosion

27. He thinks she looks beautiful…
28. …even when she’s crying.
- prom crying
- 2x04 “I think you look beautiful when you cry”

29. He’d die for her.
- “just kill me”
- “no one else can get hurt because of me”

30. She doesn’t want to be with the bad guy.
- lydia talking to aiden

31. He thinks that she’s the best thing that happened to the town.
- 1x01

32. The way that they mess with each other.
- “I saw shusie”
- “no, my designer handback”
- “a tree”/“they’re cold”
- “how am I supposed to know that” 3x06

33. She can’t say anything to him that would make her sound crazy.
- dunno what scene must find it

34. His reaction.
- when Lydia falls asleep on him

35. He doesn’t hesitate when she says, “stay”.
what the hell is a stiles scene

36. He loves girls…especially ones with strawberry blonde hair, green eyes, and 5'3.
- drunk scene

37. It’s actually strawberry blonde.
- when the police ask for descriptions of her

38. He asks Scott to see if Lydia likes him…
39. …and his reaction when Scott told him yes.
- that very scene

40. His reaction to Scott’s betrayal.
- full moon episode

41. The way that they hold onto each other.
- ice rink
- animal trap

42. She stayed with him, even though her best friend was dying.
- 3x23

43. She clings onto him for comfort even though he’s unconscious.
- 3x23 allison’s death

44. He’s always there for her.

45. The way they casually hold hands.
- montage of hand holding
- ice rink & 3x15
- hand on her back 3x14

46. She’s worried because she got him in trouble.
- string scene

47. They have faith in each other.
- “you are too smart”
- “you have been right every time something like this has happened”

48. They bicker like an old married couple.
- getting rid of her dog
- dead body 3x09
- lydia for the love of god

49. He has more “banshee experience”.

50. Red string of faith.

51. He never lies to her.

52. The way they say each other’s name.

53. The way he freaks out when she goes missing.

54. They understand each other.

55. Stiles saved her drawing…
56. …and left a note with it for her.

57. Even Aiden can tell he likes her.

58. She goes to him for comfort.

59. He dreams about her.

60. The way he worries about her.
- where is she 3x09
- running to her after deer accident
- finding body “lydia, are you okay?”
- screaming in the hospital
- peter’s attack

61. He has a ten year plan.

63. She used to ignore him.
…he prefers to think of it as her not being on her radar.
- “you look like you’re going to ignore me”

64. They wait for each other at the hospital.

65. He couldn’t figure out what to get her for her birthday…
66. …so he just got her everything.

67. He makes her smile, even in the worst of times.

68. They always correct each other.
- fields metal
- potassium is k

69. His excitement when he gets a chance with Lydia.
- ice rink
- prom

70. He offers her his jacket.

71. They both like Reeces Pieces.

71. He is in awe of her.
- ice skating

72. Even in a group of people, they stick with each other.
- dead body bickering
- ice rink
- 1x15 with scott

73. They make the same mistakes. maybe; def needs rewording
- “continue crying”
- “think about parents”

74. They are partners in crime.
- fire alarm

75. Even the cast ships it.
- pretty much any cast interview about stydia I can find

Teen wolf

why do you like Teen Wolf? ❤

1.Colton Haynes…
2.Tyler Posey plays the main character of Scott McCall. Just look at the perfection.
3.. Dylan O’Brien plays ‘Stiles’ who is probably the most lovable and brave character on TV.
4. You will be so jealous of the bromance between Stiles and Scott.
You can only dream of having a guy love you the way Stiles loves Lydia.
6. Oh yea…. This is Holland Roden. She plays Lydia. And she’s kinda the girl everyone wants to be.
7. Holland Roden and Colton Haynes are “a little more than friends” off screen too…
8. You’re going to want the relationship that Allison and Scott have…
9. Tyler Hoechlin plays the character of Derek Hale.
10. You’re basically going to want the relationship between Stiles and Derek, too.
11. There’s a steamy scene in almost every episode.
12. There’s A LOT of shirtless moments…
13. The supernatural plot line is flawless.
14. By the way, this is Daniel Sharman. He plays Issac Lahey.
15. The Teen Wolf fandom has the coolest shippers in the world. That means they actively pair up two characters who they think should be together.
16. There will be times when it will make you cry.
17. There will be times when it’ll make you fall out of your seat laughing.
18. Two is better than one. These twins have a strong role in season 3.
19. Allison Argent isn’t afraid of anything.
20. Honestly, you can’t not love this cast.

Kira

What do think about Kira? 

She’s a triple threat.
We already knew that Arden’s a killer actress and martial arts superstar, but she also has a set of pipes on her! She frequently posts covers of pop songs to her channel, á la Ariana Grande. Check out this mellowed-out version of Taylor Swift‘s “22.”Her dog is awesome.
You may remember Arden’s puppy, Chewy, from his co-starring role as Tyler Posey’s chin-licker, but if that wasn’t enough to turn you on to the furball, there’s so much more. Arden has an entire playlist devoted to her pup called “Chewy Time” and it’s EVERYTHING. This one of Chewy giving Arden a high-five is perfect for a dreary Monday pick-me-up!
She can do gymnastics.
So, about that martial arts experience… This vid documents one of Arden’s training sessions, and the bad-ass chica busts out a series of back handsprings worthy of the 2016 Olympic floor team. Check out her skills at the 1:21 mark!She vlogs, and is so endearingly dorky about it.
She may be a rising star, but Cho is as down-to-earth as it gets. She’s an avid vlogger, updating the Interwebs with all sorts of info about her personal and professional life, including that time she took Chewy to get neutered…She gives good advice.
“Girl Code” alert! Arden’s got a series called “Ask Arden,” in which she takes fan questions about friendship, love and everything in between. Check out this clip to find out her thoughts on staying pals with an ex. Watch out, Nicole Byer, someone’s after your job!

Stiles Stilinski

What do you like on Stiles? 😊‎  

01. His fierce loyalty to his friends and family
02. His protectiveness over his dad
03. His super bro-man-dude relationship with Scott
04. That one time that Stiles called Melissa, ‘Mom’
05. His love for Lydia Martin
06. That one time Stiles got possessed by an evil demon
07. Stiles’ one liners
08. The fact that Stiles Stilinski finally found a girlfriend
09. Stiles’ facial expressions
10. Stiles and his buzzed hair cut in Season One

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Entry into the overall theme of the blog; Werewolves

Werewolf

 

A werewolf, also known as a lycanthrope "wolf",  "man"), is a mythological or folkloric human with the ability to shapeshift into a wolf or a therianthropic hybrid wolf-like creature, either purposely or after being placed under a curse or affliction ( a bite or scratch from another werewolf). Early sources for belief in lycanthropy are Petronius and Gervase of Tilbury.

The werewolf is a widespread concept in European folklore, existing in many variants which are related by a common development of a Christian interpretation of underlying European folklore which developed during the medieval period. From the early modern period, werewolf beliefs also spread to the New World with colonialism. Belief in werewolves developed in parallel to the belief in witches, in the course of the Late Middle Ages and the Early Modern period. Like the witchcraft trials as a whole, the trial of supposed werewolves emerged in what is now Switzerland (especially theValais and Vaud) in the early 15th century and spread throughout Europe in the 16th, peaking in the 17th and subsiding by the 18th century. The persecution of werewolves and the associated folklore is an integral part of the "witch-hunt" phenomenon, albeit a marginal one, accusations of werewolfery being involved in only a small fraction of witchcraft trials. During the early period, accusations of lycanthropy (transformation into a wolf) were mixed with accusations of wolf-riding or wolf-charming. The case of Peter Stumpp (1589) led to a significant peak in both interest in and persecution of supposed werewolves, primarily in French-speaking and German-speaking Europe. The phenomenon persisted longest in Bavaria and Austria, with persecution of wolf-charmers recorded until well after 1650, the final cases taking place in the early 18th century in Carinthia and Styria.

After the end of the witch-trials, the werewolf became of interest in folklore studies and in the emerging Gothic horrorgenre; werewolf fiction as a genre has pre-modern precedents in medieval romances (e.g. Bisclavret and Guillaume de Palerme) and developed in the 18th century out of the "semi-fictional" chap book tradition. The trappings of horror literature in the 20th century became part of the horror and fantasy genre of modern pop culture.

 

To be continued ........